Shoes do make the woman

Did you know that Payless Shoe Stores carries American Eagle brand shoes now? I found out just by wandering in one day and I fell in love with the selection. They have everything from casual slip on shoes, to flip flops to adorable dressy shoes such as these that I have shown here. Here again, notice the heel on the shoe. Notice that you'll not be trying to balance your big, beautiful frame on a heel tip which is the size of a pin head. I know that sometimes its about fashion and not practicality but as I've stated before...reality is accepting the fact that some shoes were just not meant for big girls to wear! That being said, I really think you should make it your task to get out and find yourself a great pair of shoes. Trust me. Shoes make for a happy woman and a happy woman makes for a happy environment all around! By the way, those shoes that you see up there. The sexy red ones...they're only $19.99!! How great is that?

Spanx Me!

How many times have you found a dress that you thought would be just perfect for you. How many times have you seen a pair of pants and had to have them because they'd look terrific with that sweater you got for your birthday. How many times have you tried these things on and had to walk down-trodden back to the rack and return them because they allowed every bulge and roll and anything else negative to be cast into the limelight?

No more! There is a solution and that solution is SPANX. There is a Spanx product made to control everything from your upper body down to your calves. It's revolutionary. They're wonderful. I first noticed them sold at Lane Bryant not too long ago which made me a happy girl. I originally heard about them on the Oprah Winfrey show and I knew right then that I would be a fan forever. They run in size from small to extra large at Spanx.com however at Lane Bryant, they're offered in the plus sizes.

Seriously ladies...we all need to get our Spanx'ing!

Life Changing Ways

If you're like me, you have probably found yourself on diet after diet after diet. Constantly trying to find the new fad that will work for you. I have discovered one thing. Diets do not work. Dieting will not get you where you want to be. Changing your lifestyle...that will bring results. It's a lifetime change. Not a 30 day process. Exercise and very sensible eating habits...that's what it's all about. I'm not the best when it comes to being devoted to an exercise regimen, BUT, to my credit, I do run after 5 kids all day long, up and down the stairs, running a household with 10 people in it...so I get my fair share of fitness in.

What it all boils down to is sensibility. Use your head. You know that the pizza is going to stick with you a lot longer than a grilled chicken caesar salad. It's making wise decisions and being devoted to changing the way you eat on a daily basis. Some of us may never be thin, but that's okay. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle and a positive outlook on life is all that we'll ever need!

Embracing Yourself

Always remember to look into the mirror every single day and see the beautiful woman that you are. Never let anybody tell you that you're less of a person because you're bigger in size. You are beautiful, incredible and special and you are someone important and you're destined for great things! Embrace your inner diva every single day and recognize your self for all that you are worth...and that is something priceless!

Sheer Elegance

I've found a new haven in which to shop! I'm simply in love with Igigi! I love their clothing. It's elegant and tailored and sophisticated. They also have a bridal selection which is simply beautiful. Their stores are somewhat limited in location but I have a feeling that they're branching out rather quickly. In the meantime, I'm delighted to be able to shop online. I would urge you to go and have a look.